How To Chat Up Girls Increase Your Odds Of Success

Sure, this takes some advance mental prep, like you’re warming up for a big basketball game, but once you get the technique down, the smoothness of approach, you’ll have no problem with women. Sure, women like looks and money and nice clothes and some things that you may not have, but confidence can overcome a lot. Carrying yourself like you take yourself seriously will make women feel that there must be some reason for you to act like that…and they’ll start nosing around to find out what it is.

It’s time to set your shyness—okay, HORROR at having to do this—aside and fake it ‘til you make it. Think of this as a job interview…and let’s face it, that’s basically what it is. At an initial meeting, men are generally busy determining the level of attractiveness of a woman, whereas the woman is often sizing up the man in view of relationship potential. You’re just trying to get through the conversation and get her number and she might be wondering how you feel about kids. If she expresses enough interest to actually ask questions about you, you’ll know where she’s mentally got this thing headed…is she asking if you live nearby, or where you think is a good place to raise kids? It’s probably somewhere between the two, but you get the idea…and you’ll know whether it’s time to run.

Before you approach a woman, be sure that you not only have a conversation starter in mind, but a few things to say should that run dry. Physical props can be very helpful: if you’re at a bar, be sure to have a drink in hand. This can help keep you calm, and give you something to do with your hands so they don’t betray your awkwardness. A woman wants a MAN, so focus on those aspects of yourself when the conversation turns to you…don’t tell her about living in your parent’s basement or your great job as a pizza delivery guy.

A good trick is to think of the men that women consistently vote “most sexy”--Brad Pitt, George Clooney, Harrison Ford, JFK--and do a little pretending. Now, this doesn’t mean swaggering around, doing a Sean Connery imitation and pretending like you’re 007, but think confident, act confident, look confident.

And don’t forget the cardinal rule…EXPRESS INTEREST IN HER. A woman wants to believe that you find something special and unique about her, not that if she steps off to the restroom for a moment, you’ll be prospecting the woman at the next stool. Because if you’re not focused exclusively on her, she and the woman at the next stool will be leaving you to buy your hand a drink.

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